The Catholic Church described paedophile priests working in parishes across Australia as ticking “time bombs”, damning minutes from a high-level meeting of top church officials in 1992 reveals.
Minutes tendered to the child abuse royal commission from a special issues committee meeting at the Australian Catholic Bishops Conference said it was agreed there were “serious ‘time bombs’ ticking away in a number of dioceses”.
The former second-in-charge of the Melbourne Archdiocese, Bishop Peter Connors, who chaired the committee, testified on Thursday that the reference applied not only to churches in Melbourne but also in other dioceses.
Senior counsel assisting the commission, Gail Furness, SC, asked Bishop Connors if the minutes referred to priests and brothers who had serious allegations against them and clergy who were accepted within the church to be sexual offenders.
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“That would certainly be the case, I think, in particular the Diocese of Ballarat, the big time bomb was ticking away there,” Bishop Connors said.
Asked whether it applied to Doveton, where a succession of paedophile priests including Peter Searson were sent over three decades, Bishop Connors said: “I expect it would have been, but there would certainly be other dioceses where that problem, of time bombs ticking away, existed.”
The commission heard that the meeting, set up to deal with allegations against clergy, noted the importance of treating priests fairly.
Bishop Connors, who was vicar-general of the Melbourne archdiocese from 1976 to 1987, said advice from the Catholic Church’s insurers was to “admit nothing” in a bid to limit future compensation to abuse victims.
He admitted that he contributed to a culture of keeping accusations of clergy sex abuse against children in-house.
“I would accept that was almost certainly the way that I was approaching those kind of accusations,” he said.
Asked by commission chair Peter McClellan whether he recalled anyone in the church’s senior management ever expressing a contrary view, he said: “No, I don’t.”
Bishop Hilton Deakin testified on Thursday that he was told to refer complaints directly to Frank Little, who headed the Melbourne Diocese from 1974 to 1996, unless they were about a priest’s sexual behaviour.
“He said, ‘there’s one form of complaint you tell me verbally – and do it at breakfast or at dinner at night – and that’s the end of it; there’s no discussion, no analysis, no further’, and that was paedophilia.”
Bishop Deakin, vicar-general from 1987 to 1992, said complaints about Doveton priest Peter Searson were widely known within the church.
“You had to be in the parish for five minutes and you would hear about Fr Searson,” he said.
Bishop Deakin said when he was an auxiliary bishop he spoke to the Apostolic Nuncio, the Pope’s representative in Australia, about Fr Peter Searson.
“I was telling him about this priest, who was a most evil person, doing evil things to little children in a school and had been doing it for quite some time,” he said.
“I was hoping and praying that something would be done.”
He said the Apostolic Nuncio thanked him and walked away.
Complaints about Searson’s alarming behaviour date back to 1977 when he was parish priest at Our Lady of Mount Carmel in Sunbury and continued in the mid-1980s when he started at Holy Family in Doveton.
The church has paid out almost $300,000 to Searson’s victims, but he died in 2009 before facing any child sex abuse charges.
Archbishop Hart has previously accepted that children were put in danger because investigations under former Archbishop Little into several priests, including Searson, were not carried out properly.
Bishop Connors said on Thursday that until the mid-1980’s church officials did not fully understand the “horrible effects” caused to victims of child sexual abuse. “Most of us did not understand the horrible effects of sex assault of a minor,” he said.
He said it would take generations for trust in the Catholic Church to be restored.
“There has been a terrible abuse of the trust that people gave implicitly to priests, and that trust was sacred, but it was destroyed by priests, the way they acted; it will take generations for that trust to be restored,” he said.
The hearing in Melbourne continues.
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More than 2,200 suspects are being investigated by UK police probing historical child sex abuse allegations. Figures from Operation Hydrant – which was set up by the National Police Chiefs’ Council – show the total has risen by almost 800 since May. It includes 302 people of “public prominence”, including 99 politicians and 147 from television, film or radio. Some 761 different institutions are now on the Hydrant database, including 288 schools and 204 children’s homes.
Operation Hydrant was set up last summer to oversee the investigation of allegations of “non-recent” child sex abuse within institutions or by people of public prominence. It does not conduct any investigations itself, but gathers information from other inquiries carried out by police forces in England, Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland.
Of the 2,228 suspects currently under investigation:
Some 286 are now dead, while 554 are classified as unknown or unidentified
Among those of public prominence, 39 come from the music industry and 17 from the world of sport
A total of 1,217 are alleged offenders who operated within institutions, including 86 religious institutions, 39 medical establishments and 25 prisons or young offenders institutes
Other institutions named include 22 sports venues, 10 community institutions, such as youth clubs, and 81 other institutions, such as guest houses….
DK note – AEDT is 16 hours ahead of US EST. 10:00am AEDT Monday 7 December is 6:00pm US EST Sunday 6 December.
http://www.childabuseroyalcommission.gov.au/media-centre/media-releases/2015-12/public-hearing-into-catholic-church-authorities-in
Public hearing into Catholic Church authorities in Ballarat
3 December, 2015
The Royal Commission will hold the second part of the public hearing regarding Catholic Church authorities in Ballarat at the County Court of Victoria, Melbourne, commencing on Monday, 7 December 2015.
The scope and purpose of the second part of this public hearing is to inquire into:
The response of the Catholic Diocese of Ballarat and of other Catholic Church authorities in Ballarat to allegations of child sexual abuse against clergy or religious.
The response of Victoria Police to allegations of child sexual abuse against clergy or religious which took place within the Catholic Diocese of Ballarat.
Any related matters.
Cardinal George Pell is expected to give evidence from 16-18 December in relation to both Case Study 35 (the response of the Archdiocese of Melbourne to allegations of child sexual abuse) and Case Study 28 (the response of Catholic authorities in Ballarat to allegations of child sexual abuse.)
Date: Monday 7 December 2015
Duration: 7-15 December.
Hearing times: 10:00am – 4:00pm AEDT
Location: County Court of Victoria, 250 William Street, Melbourne, Victoria
The Royal Commission will provide a webcast of proceedings in the Trench room at the Ballarat Town Hall, Sturt Street, Ballarat, and the proceedings will be live streamed on the Royal Commission website www.childabuseroyalcommission.gov.au.
Join us on Twitter and Facebook for regular updates.
Almost every survivor of sexual assault or abuse will at one point think, “It was my fault.” What many of us don’t know is WHY survivors feel shame and guilt or why others around them might blame them instead of the perpetrator. The following cartoon breaks down the reasons why.
To all the survivors out there who are blaming themselves for what happened, here’s the psychology behind why you might feel so guilty. I’m crossing my fingers that at least a couple of you will read this and finally feel some solace.
And for anyone who has ever asked, “Why didn’t she run away?” or “Why didn’t he scream?” — this one’s for you, too.
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Last Sunday VP Rajeena, a journalist in Kozhikode, Kerala, put up a Facebook post where she described the sexual abuse of children that she had witnessed in a madrassa where she had studied many years ago. What followed was a vicious outpouring of hate and threats. Indeed, there was such an avalanche of complaints against her post, complaints that she was trying to besmirch her religion, that Facebook was forced to block her account.
Rajeena, who works in a Malayalam newspaper, wrote about a teacher at a Kozhikode madrassa who allegedly groped male students. Young boys would be asked to unzip their pants and the teacher would proceed to touch them, she wrote. She also talked about another teacher who apparently abused little girls.
This could be a snapshot of child sex abuse from anywhere in the world. It should have evoked shock and outrage, consternation even, that here was one more example of the fact that the schools where we send our children to study are not safe havens of scholarship; they often harbour sexual predators who may prey on them and leave them psychologically scarred forever.
However, the anger that Rajeena’s post evoked was not directed at the paedophiles she talked about. The anger was directed at her. Online lynch mobs quickly gathered around and rained invectives on her because it was felt that by turning the spotlight on the evil of child sex abuse in a madrassa, which is an Islamic school, she was trying to discredit the schools, and by extension, the religion itself.
A small incident of online harassment? A mere sideshow about an unknown journalist whose Facebook account was blocked because she said something which offended some people?
Not at all. In a sense, Rajeena’s experience encapsulates the dogma and intolerance that’s become almost the leitmotif of our society – a society where every community or group seems to be driven by zealots who cannot countenance any real or perceived criticism against any of its so-called institutions. The zealots are quick to mobilise and because they mobilise with such ferocity and focus, it’s their voice that gets heard – not the voice of the vast majority of sane people.
What was so earth-shaking about drawing attention to child sex abuse in a madrassa? After all, sexual abuse of children is a worldwide problem. For decades, the Catholic Church was flayed for protecting paedophiles who abused little boys and girls, and not taking any action against them. In the US, where the problem has been particularly rampant, the John Jay Report, commissioned by the US Conference of Catholic Bishops in 2004, brought to light 4,392 priests accused of sexual abuse of a minor between 1950 and 2002.
Once prone to turn a blind eye to such incidents, the Catholic Church, faced with frequent allegations of paedophilia against its clergy not just in the US, but also in Canada, Australia, Ireland, South America, Britain and indeed, all over Europe, was forced to confront the issue. Eventually, the Vatican too weighed in on the problem. During a visit to the US in 2008, Pope Benedict said he was “deeply ashamed” about child sex abuse by the clergy. Moving from the earlier culture of impunity, today, the church takes punitive measures against those found guilty of child molestation. In November 2014, Pope Francis excommunicated Father Jose Mercau of Argentina for the crime of child sex abuse.
But it’s not just the Catholic Church. Sexual abuse of children is a horrifying crime that may take place at home, at school, and indeed anywhere at all. It is committed by all manner of men – the sordid and the superb. Michael Jackson, that immortal king of pop, whose voice throbbed with such purity of feeling that it could make you cry, stood accused of multiple instances of child sex abuse.
In India, there are regular reports of child rape and sex abuse – many of them taking place at home or in schools. A survey conducted by the ministry of women and child development in 2007 found that more than 53% of children in the country were subjected to sexual abuse. In most cases the abusers were known to the child or were in a position of trust and responsibility.
When child sex abuse is so endemic, is the idea of it taking place at a madrassa beyond the realm of possibility? Is an Islamic school distinct from the warp and weft of society at large, is it immune to its goodness and its evils?
A crime like child abuse has no religion. Once the Catholic Church too viewed this atrocity through the prism of religion – and refused to recognise it or take institutional steps to curb it. But it had to change with the times and recognise the fact that sexual abuse of children brings shame on its perpetrators — not on the religion to which they belong.
Rajeena’s post on the child abuse she experienced in that madrassa should have kickstarted a probe into the conduct of those teachers. It’s a testament to the raging bigotry of our times that all it did was to shut her up and shout her down.
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With the release of the feature film Spotlight, attention is once again being focused on the Catholic Church’s flawed response to sexual abuse. However it’s important to use the attention the film is generating to shine some light on male victims of sexual abuse.. In virtually every community (both religious and secular) the sexual victimization of boys and men remains vastly under-reported and poorly addressed.
Research indicates that male sexual victimization occurs at staggeringly high rates. Data from the most recent National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey (NISVS) from the CDC estimates that more than 26 million males will experience some form of sexual violence in their lifetime. A recent study from 2014 reported that 43% of high school and college aged males reported submitting to unwanted sexual activity. It also is widely accepted among child advocates that at least 1 in 6 boys is sexually abused in childhood.
However, because of a technical distinction in how sexual assaults are categorized, a significant number of men’s experiences of sexual abuse are minimized and, in reality, ignored. NISVS excludes from the category of rape incidents where a victim is “made to penetrate” someone (or something) else.
Why does this matter? First, many mental health professionals recognize that any instance of coerced penetration can cause significant physical and emotional harm to the victim. In addition, while NISVS data reported no instances of male “rape” in the 12 months prior to data collection, it reported over 1.9 million males suffered a “made to penetrate” victimization over that same time period. This number is almost equal to the estimated number of female victims of rape. Excluding these male victims of a serious sexual crime from the category of rape changes public perception of the severity of male victimization, and contributes to an environment where male survivors’ disclosures are routinely minimized, mocked, and routinely rejected. This bias has helped to foster an environment where male survivors delay disclosing abuse for more than 20 years on average. Often these are decades filled with pain, isolation, and self-harm.
Tens of millions of men and boys experience sexual violence in this country as well as women and girls. Every survivor, regardless of gender, deserves to be heard, believed and supported. If a male needs help, he can find hope, healing, and support through various organizations like malesurvivor.org. Help is available. There is no need to confront these issues alone.
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Beau Donnelly, Church knew paedophile priests were a ‘ticking time bomb’ , The Sydney Morning Herald
/in International /by SOL ReformThe Catholic Church described paedophile priests working in parishes across Australia as ticking “time bombs”, damning minutes from a high-level meeting of top church officials in 1992 reveals.
Minutes tendered to the child abuse royal commission from a special issues committee meeting at the Australian Catholic Bishops Conference said it was agreed there were “serious ‘time bombs’ ticking away in a number of dioceses”.
The former second-in-charge of the Melbourne Archdiocese, Bishop Peter Connors, who chaired the committee, testified on Thursday that the reference applied not only to churches in Melbourne but also in other dioceses.
Senior counsel assisting the commission, Gail Furness, SC, asked Bishop Connors if the minutes referred to priests and brothers who had serious allegations against them and clergy who were accepted within the church to be sexual offenders.
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“That would certainly be the case, I think, in particular the Diocese of Ballarat, the big time bomb was ticking away there,” Bishop Connors said.
Asked whether it applied to Doveton, where a succession of paedophile priests including Peter Searson were sent over three decades, Bishop Connors said: “I expect it would have been, but there would certainly be other dioceses where that problem, of time bombs ticking away, existed.”
The commission heard that the meeting, set up to deal with allegations against clergy, noted the importance of treating priests fairly.
Bishop Connors, who was vicar-general of the Melbourne archdiocese from 1976 to 1987, said advice from the Catholic Church’s insurers was to “admit nothing” in a bid to limit future compensation to abuse victims.
He admitted that he contributed to a culture of keeping accusations of clergy sex abuse against children in-house.
“I would accept that was almost certainly the way that I was approaching those kind of accusations,” he said.
Asked by commission chair Peter McClellan whether he recalled anyone in the church’s senior management ever expressing a contrary view, he said: “No, I don’t.”
Bishop Hilton Deakin testified on Thursday that he was told to refer complaints directly to Frank Little, who headed the Melbourne Diocese from 1974 to 1996, unless they were about a priest’s sexual behaviour.
“He said, ‘there’s one form of complaint you tell me verbally – and do it at breakfast or at dinner at night – and that’s the end of it; there’s no discussion, no analysis, no further’, and that was paedophilia.”
Bishop Deakin, vicar-general from 1987 to 1992, said complaints about Doveton priest Peter Searson were widely known within the church.
“You had to be in the parish for five minutes and you would hear about Fr Searson,” he said.
Bishop Deakin said when he was an auxiliary bishop he spoke to the Apostolic Nuncio, the Pope’s representative in Australia, about Fr Peter Searson.
“I was telling him about this priest, who was a most evil person, doing evil things to little children in a school and had been doing it for quite some time,” he said.
“I was hoping and praying that something would be done.”
He said the Apostolic Nuncio thanked him and walked away.
Complaints about Searson’s alarming behaviour date back to 1977 when he was parish priest at Our Lady of Mount Carmel in Sunbury and continued in the mid-1980s when he started at Holy Family in Doveton.
The church has paid out almost $300,000 to Searson’s victims, but he died in 2009 before facing any child sex abuse charges.
Archbishop Hart has previously accepted that children were put in danger because investigations under former Archbishop Little into several priests, including Searson, were not carried out properly.
Bishop Connors said on Thursday that until the mid-1980’s church officials did not fully understand the “horrible effects” caused to victims of child sexual abuse. “Most of us did not understand the horrible effects of sex assault of a minor,” he said.
He said it would take generations for trust in the Catholic Church to be restored.
“There has been a terrible abuse of the trust that people gave implicitly to priests, and that trust was sacred, but it was destroyed by priests, the way they acted; it will take generations for that trust to be restored,” he said.
The hearing in Melbourne continues.
Read more: http://www.smh.com.au/national/about-us/paedophile-priests-a-ticking-time-tomb-church-minutes-reveal-20151202-gle5ys.html#ixzz3tMo0qrWm
Operation Hydrant: UK police identify 2,228 child abuse suspects, BBC
/in International /by SOL ReformMore than 2,200 suspects are being investigated by UK police probing historical child sex abuse allegations. Figures from Operation Hydrant – which was set up by the National Police Chiefs’ Council – show the total has risen by almost 800 since May. It includes 302 people of “public prominence”, including 99 politicians and 147 from television, film or radio. Some 761 different institutions are now on the Hydrant database, including 288 schools and 204 children’s homes.
Operation Hydrant was set up last summer to oversee the investigation of allegations of “non-recent” child sex abuse within institutions or by people of public prominence. It does not conduct any investigations itself, but gathers information from other inquiries carried out by police forces in England, Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland.
Of the 2,228 suspects currently under investigation:
Some 286 are now dead, while 554 are classified as unknown or unidentified
Among those of public prominence, 39 come from the music industry and 17 from the world of sport
A total of 1,217 are alleged offenders who operated within institutions, including 86 religious institutions, 39 medical establishments and 25 prisons or young offenders institutes
Other institutions named include 22 sports venues, 10 community institutions, such as youth clubs, and 81 other institutions, such as guest houses….
Operation Hydrant_ UK police identify 2,228 child abuse suspects – BBC News
DK note – AEDT is 16 hours ahead of US EST. 10:00am AEDT Monday 7 December is 6:00pm US EST Sunday 6 December.
http://www.childabuseroyalcommission.gov.au/media-centre/media-releases/2015-12/public-hearing-into-catholic-church-authorities-in
Public hearing into Catholic Church authorities in Ballarat
3 December, 2015
The Royal Commission will hold the second part of the public hearing regarding Catholic Church authorities in Ballarat at the County Court of Victoria, Melbourne, commencing on Monday, 7 December 2015.
The scope and purpose of the second part of this public hearing is to inquire into:
The response of the Catholic Diocese of Ballarat and of other Catholic Church authorities in Ballarat to allegations of child sexual abuse against clergy or religious.
The response of Victoria Police to allegations of child sexual abuse against clergy or religious which took place within the Catholic Diocese of Ballarat.
Any related matters.
Cardinal George Pell is expected to give evidence from 16-18 December in relation to both Case Study 35 (the response of the Archdiocese of Melbourne to allegations of child sexual abuse) and Case Study 28 (the response of Catholic authorities in Ballarat to allegations of child sexual abuse.)
Date: Monday 7 December 2015
Duration: 7-15 December.
Hearing times: 10:00am – 4:00pm AEDT
Location: County Court of Victoria, 250 William Street, Melbourne, Victoria
The Royal Commission will provide a webcast of proceedings in the Trench room at the Ballarat Town Hall, Sturt Street, Ballarat, and the proceedings will be live streamed on the Royal Commission website www.childabuseroyalcommission.gov.au.
Join us on Twitter and Facebook for regular updates.
Media releases, Child Abuse Royal Commission
Andrea Garcia Vargas, Why do sexual assault survivors feel shame? A cartoon sums it up., Upworthy
/in Uncategorized /by SOL Reformhttp://www.upworthy.com/why-do-sexual-assault-survivors-feel-shame-a-cartoon-sums-it-up?c=ufb1
Almost every survivor of sexual assault or abuse will at one point think, “It was my fault.” What many of us don’t know is WHY survivors feel shame and guilt or why others around them might blame them instead of the perpetrator. The following cartoon breaks down the reasons why.
To all the survivors out there who are blaming themselves for what happened, here’s the psychology behind why you might feel so guilty. I’m crossing my fingers that at least a couple of you will read this and finally feel some solace.
And for anyone who has ever asked, “Why didn’t she run away?” or “Why didn’t he scream?” — this one’s for you, too.
Shuma Raha, Madrassa memories: Why child sex abuse has no religion, The Times of India
/in International /by SOL ReformLast Sunday VP Rajeena, a journalist in Kozhikode, Kerala, put up a Facebook post where she described the sexual abuse of children that she had witnessed in a madrassa where she had studied many years ago. What followed was a vicious outpouring of hate and threats. Indeed, there was such an avalanche of complaints against her post, complaints that she was trying to besmirch her religion, that Facebook was forced to block her account.
Rajeena, who works in a Malayalam newspaper, wrote about a teacher at a Kozhikode madrassa who allegedly groped male students. Young boys would be asked to unzip their pants and the teacher would proceed to touch them, she wrote. She also talked about another teacher who apparently abused little girls.
This could be a snapshot of child sex abuse from anywhere in the world. It should have evoked shock and outrage, consternation even, that here was one more example of the fact that the schools where we send our children to study are not safe havens of scholarship; they often harbour sexual predators who may prey on them and leave them psychologically scarred forever.
However, the anger that Rajeena’s post evoked was not directed at the paedophiles she talked about. The anger was directed at her. Online lynch mobs quickly gathered around and rained invectives on her because it was felt that by turning the spotlight on the evil of child sex abuse in a madrassa, which is an Islamic school, she was trying to discredit the schools, and by extension, the religion itself.
A small incident of online harassment? A mere sideshow about an unknown journalist whose Facebook account was blocked because she said something which offended some people?
Not at all. In a sense, Rajeena’s experience encapsulates the dogma and intolerance that’s become almost the leitmotif of our society – a society where every community or group seems to be driven by zealots who cannot countenance any real or perceived criticism against any of its so-called institutions. The zealots are quick to mobilise and because they mobilise with such ferocity and focus, it’s their voice that gets heard – not the voice of the vast majority of sane people.
What was so earth-shaking about drawing attention to child sex abuse in a madrassa? After all, sexual abuse of children is a worldwide problem. For decades, the Catholic Church was flayed for protecting paedophiles who abused little boys and girls, and not taking any action against them. In the US, where the problem has been particularly rampant, the John Jay Report, commissioned by the US Conference of Catholic Bishops in 2004, brought to light 4,392 priests accused of sexual abuse of a minor between 1950 and 2002.
Once prone to turn a blind eye to such incidents, the Catholic Church, faced with frequent allegations of paedophilia against its clergy not just in the US, but also in Canada, Australia, Ireland, South America, Britain and indeed, all over Europe, was forced to confront the issue. Eventually, the Vatican too weighed in on the problem. During a visit to the US in 2008, Pope Benedict said he was “deeply ashamed” about child sex abuse by the clergy. Moving from the earlier culture of impunity, today, the church takes punitive measures against those found guilty of child molestation. In November 2014, Pope Francis excommunicated Father Jose Mercau of Argentina for the crime of child sex abuse.
But it’s not just the Catholic Church. Sexual abuse of children is a horrifying crime that may take place at home, at school, and indeed anywhere at all. It is committed by all manner of men – the sordid and the superb. Michael Jackson, that immortal king of pop, whose voice throbbed with such purity of feeling that it could make you cry, stood accused of multiple instances of child sex abuse.
In India, there are regular reports of child rape and sex abuse – many of them taking place at home or in schools. A survey conducted by the ministry of women and child development in 2007 found that more than 53% of children in the country were subjected to sexual abuse. In most cases the abusers were known to the child or were in a position of trust and responsibility.
When child sex abuse is so endemic, is the idea of it taking place at a madrassa beyond the realm of possibility? Is an Islamic school distinct from the warp and weft of society at large, is it immune to its goodness and its evils?
A crime like child abuse has no religion. Once the Catholic Church too viewed this atrocity through the prism of religion – and refused to recognise it or take institutional steps to curb it. But it had to change with the times and recognise the fact that sexual abuse of children brings shame on its perpetrators — not on the religion to which they belong.
Rajeena’s post on the child abuse she experienced in that madrassa should have kickstarted a probe into the conduct of those teachers. It’s a testament to the raging bigotry of our times that all it did was to shut her up and shout her down.
Madrassa memories_ Why child sex abuse has no religion – TOI Blogs
Christopher Anderson, ‘Spotlight’ on the 26 million men who will experience sexual violence in their lifetime, SF Gate
/in California /by SOL ReformWith the release of the feature film Spotlight, attention is once again being focused on the Catholic Church’s flawed response to sexual abuse. However it’s important to use the attention the film is generating to shine some light on male victims of sexual abuse.. In virtually every community (both religious and secular) the sexual victimization of boys and men remains vastly under-reported and poorly addressed.
Research indicates that male sexual victimization occurs at staggeringly high rates. Data from the most recent National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey (NISVS) from the CDC estimates that more than 26 million males will experience some form of sexual violence in their lifetime. A recent study from 2014 reported that 43% of high school and college aged males reported submitting to unwanted sexual activity. It also is widely accepted among child advocates that at least 1 in 6 boys is sexually abused in childhood.
However, because of a technical distinction in how sexual assaults are categorized, a significant number of men’s experiences of sexual abuse are minimized and, in reality, ignored. NISVS excludes from the category of rape incidents where a victim is “made to penetrate” someone (or something) else.
Why does this matter? First, many mental health professionals recognize that any instance of coerced penetration can cause significant physical and emotional harm to the victim. In addition, while NISVS data reported no instances of male “rape” in the 12 months prior to data collection, it reported over 1.9 million males suffered a “made to penetrate” victimization over that same time period. This number is almost equal to the estimated number of female victims of rape. Excluding these male victims of a serious sexual crime from the category of rape changes public perception of the severity of male victimization, and contributes to an environment where male survivors’ disclosures are routinely minimized, mocked, and routinely rejected. This bias has helped to foster an environment where male survivors delay disclosing abuse for more than 20 years on average. Often these are decades filled with pain, isolation, and self-harm.
Tens of millions of men and boys experience sexual violence in this country as well as women and girls. Every survivor, regardless of gender, deserves to be heard, believed and supported. If a male needs help, he can find hope, healing, and support through various organizations like malesurvivor.org. Help is available. There is no need to confront these issues alone.
‘Spotlight’ on the 26 million men who will experience sexual violence in their lifetime – SFGate